Life just a path way that people pass by?
Life is a short trip?
Life just as simple as breath?
Life is a huge stage, we can choose to be the main character or one of the stone?
Life? For me? I've no idea why i'm here, what i'm doing, what is going to happen later. Life is just so complicated, challenging, wonderful when you're trying to find out the answer, and it's so unfair. Life is not a trading or business, it won't give you exactly how much you pay for it, but sometime something came to you without a reason. It's unpredictable. some people's life are god damn lucky, they got everything in their life but somebody are so bad luck and they die in hunger. How we choose to be lucky always? Unfortunately, we cannot!
Seriously, i'm worrying about I've no tomorrow and i keep finding the best way to be myself... I just found a word for myself so far, that is AP~PRE~CIA~TE. It sound very sad, right? sigh, I do appreciate but it's hard to Appreciate and i don't know what is the best way to appreciate, sometime. Sometime I do appreciate and it just seems like not worth that much of effort to appreciate and sometime it's kinda disappointing when I put too much effort on it. By the way, I don't even know how is too much, actually. People said: It always needs contrast balance. Contrast balance is to balance among how much we've pay and how much we get, we cannot pay too much at one shot, else it won't "run smoothly". Erm, kinda true, right? What if never get any return? that means pay too much?! I've no idea!! and Please, Please don't sit and wait for return, if you're stingy or play safe, because you're selfish and stupid. Errr.. we should remind ourselves must play smart? must know how much you pay, at the same time also playing on return roll, don't forget to return, so that everything can work nicely? Think of it. Sometime I not even know what is wrong and what is right, because something might be wrong for me, but it's definitely true for you. or something to me it works very well, but it's not work to you, depends on situation, examples: advices? friends? financial problem? Just make sure we can accept people's advices and take some time to think of it, don't judge it too quickly. Don't be a self centered person, think about other's feeling and situation. Don't blame people before know the truth. Don't judge a book by it's cover. Sometime, I rather keep quiet. We can not pull back the word what we've said, some words are forbidden and it will hurt very much, you will never know. you might asking how you know which is the forbidden words? my answer will be:"all the words you don't like." Sometime people just want to grab attention or win over a conversation, they use the unnecessary words and stupid words in they dialog. They never know that they just win over the conversation at the moment, and they might lose a friendship or relationship later, this is a "win-lose" situation. I knew that is pretty hard, because i'm a stubborn person too. Try to think how to be "win - win". The real Winner always be "win-win".
For people who believe in fate. Fate is when chances meet well prepared. "No fate" is just an excuses for looser. Why everyone said fate is on our hand? because we need to create our fate by our hand? do you think so? Plan ahead tomorrow, prepare yourself and wait for chances, you got fate then!
I wish everyone around me stay STRONG and POSITIVE. Have a nice day!
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